Downsizing is a significant life decision, involving not just practical and financial considerations, but also emotional ones. So, whatever your motivation for moving, you might want to discuss it with your family.
Of course, it’s always your decision to move. If you’re the parent of adult children though, you may wish to let them know about your plans. Should your children be unsupportive, there are ways to navigate this.
Whoever brings up the subject for the first time, it’s important to talk things through. Once you’ve got your ducks in a row, agree on a time and place where you can have a calm, uninterrupted conversation.
Whether you’re looking to downsize for financial or health reasons, or a desire for a simpler lifestyle, sit down with your children and explain this to them. Allow your children to respond and ask any questions. But also reassure them that your decision to downsize has been carefully considered and the overall outcome will improve your quality of life.
Remain firm in your decision while staying compassionate and understanding of their feelings, making it clear why downsizing is in your best interest. View the situation as the start of a new chapter, rather than the closing of a book.
Seek professional help if necessary
Should conversations about downsizing become particularly challenging, consider involving a mediator or family counsellor to help facilitate the discussion. Furthermore, consult estate agents, mortgage brokers and financial advisors for independent, professional and objective advice on the downsizing process.
Discussing downsizing with your family requires sensitivity, transparency, and patience. By preparing yourself, choosing the right time, and approaching any conversations with empathy, you can help your family understand your decision. After all, downsizing isn’t just about moving home; it’s about starting a new phase of your life – and embracing the opportunities that lay ahead.
This blog is taken from our Guide to Downsizing Your Home, where you can find information on everything from the financial considerations involved, to how to approach the topic with family.
